ual compatibility.. help!!?

Sounds like whoever wrote this loves the person that he or she wrote this to a lot and is interested in having a complete and full relationship. It also sounds like whoever received this is not keeping his or her end of the deal and is in jeopardy of losing the other person completely. If I received something like that from my husband I would be re-evaluating how well I was meeting his needs, and I would feel terrible about the hurt that my actions (or lack of actions) was hurting him. I would immediately begin to make changes. And I would apologize to him for his hurt feelings, too.